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Don't tell me there is a set rule for domination! Domination is
different for every S/d relationship. There is no rule book for being a domme,
so why are people constantly commenting or correcting other people’s domination
styles. Everyone will adapt and grow their own personal style based on their
personality. When they don’t, when they remain a one dimensional character,
then you should be worried.
Like any relationship it will differ from person to person.
You would never interact with two people the exact same way. To have a successful and
hopeful long lasting relation you have to find out about the other person to
know what they like, dislike and know how to push their buttons. In addition any
successful relationship requires a give and take from both parties. A dommes
has to care about her slaves and invest time to communicate with and train them.
Similarly, a sub has to should recognize and appreciate a dommes effort in the
relationship.
There is only one rule I would put forth in domination and that would be
to never cater to a subs desires! only use these desires against them. To
tease, To tempt, To control, To reward. If you start catering to a sub then
they are the one in control. That’s not what should happen. Not with me. NOT
EVER.
The bottom line for me is I do what I want and what excites me.
Don't ever tell a Domme how to dominate.